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Saturday, December 21, 2013

The Imaginary World of Monika: Lee Min Ho Funny Facts

http://monika-leeminho.blogspot.com/p/lee-min-ho-fun-facts.html

Kekekeke, behind his coolness..looks like Lee Min Ho got a crazy side and a funny side after all !! ^^
- During Boys Over Flowers (꽃보다 남자)

He know that he was elected to play Gu Jun Pyo (구준표) role via newspaper..he had no idea that he's being selected...omo oppa...-.-"
During the shooting process on the ShinHwa pool side, Lee Min Ho said this : "Here i am, at the pool side...today we're shooting scenes where Jun Pyo waiting for Jan Di...it's Winter here..but i'm wearing shorts and drinking tropical juice...isn't it cute?? this scene would show how cute Jun Pyo is...BECAUSE I'M CUTE..." -> okay, you are, oppa...-.-"
When lying on the plastic boat at ShinHwa School's pool side, plus drinking juice, Lee Min Ho said this: "Aaahhh, this is good...i really wish for a drama where i only had to sleep and eat...is there any?? " -> -.-"
When shooting on snowy area, for scenes when F4 having a holiday, Lee Min Ho : "i want to ride a snow mobile !!! " *sitting on the floor,baby-like face*
When shooting on a snow area for F4 holiday, Fans : "Aaahh, Lee Min Ho ssi !!", Lee Min Ho stops skiing, looking and the fans and smiling...omooo...^^
When driving a sport car ( A Black Lotus GP 3) for a scene in BOF, after driving the car fast, Lee Min Ho open the car's door and said : "Kekekeke, i'm feeling super...this car was nice..a car like this should be driven...", but he looks like he suddenly realized something and he look around without getting out of that car.Then he said " i'll stay inside since it's cold...kekekekeke..." and close the car's door with a smile...-> sometimes you're really egoistic, oppa...-.-"
He was asked once, it all of the F4 were girls, who's among the F4 that would be his girlfriend?? his answer : "At first, i'll date Kim Jun ( the one who portrayed Song Woo Bin, member of F4)...but, i think our relationship wouldn't last long...then i'll go with, Hyun Joong-hyung!!! (Kim Hyun Joong, the one who portrayed Yoon Jin Ho, member of F4, the one that i love before Min Ho, remember??? *ignore this, LOL...^^*), but, i think our relationship won't last long either...because of that, i guess i'll date Kim Beom...(the one who portayed So Yi Jeong, member of F4) " -> Oppa, if you want to be with Kim Beom from the beginning, just tell it directly...-.-"
In Gu Jun Pyo's house set, shooting a scene where he's sleeping waiting for Jan Di, Lee Min Ho seems so happy, sleeping in the big bed...A cameraman tell him that he look very comfortable sleeping, and Lee Min Ho said : "Yes i am, i was so happy...i like sleeping scenes since i'm so sleepy...i wish i could shoot a scene like this everyday, because i'm sick or something...i'm so happy..." with a smile...and then the director asked where Lee Min Ho is, the cameramen said that Lee Min Ho already settle on the bed, ready to take the scene..-.-" -> Oppa, we know you love sleeping very much, but isn't it too much??? -.-"
In Golf Range at Jun Pyo house's set, Lee Min Ho : "I don't know how to swing the Golf club, i'm worried that i may hit the driver..." *silence for a few seconds* " What should i do?? what should i do?? what should i do?? " *with a baby-like, smiling face* "somehow i'll do it..." -> oppa...-.-"
On the street, when Lee Min Ho has to shoot a scene where he has to stop a truck to go back to Jan Di's place, the director said that Min Ho looks too scared...a cameraman ask him if he's all right because he look scared. Uri oppa just smile and said "I'm allright..." but he suddenly moves his finger in front of the camera and said again ..." because i'm a man..." then he opened his clamshell mobile phone and said " text me..." with a big smile...-.-"
Lee Min Ho said that he's suffering a lot when he has to shoot the scene on New Caledonia. He knew that New Caledonia is beautiful, but he said it that it's too hot...and everything there was so expensive...he said that food there cost around 150.000 Korean Won, and drinks costs 50.000 Won.
Lee Min Ho : "In New Caledonia, i know that Jun Pyo look very rich, his character is very rich...and i'm the one who's playing that character...but, the moment our director said 'Cut !!', you'll see how poor we are...we're eating hard-bread after finished taking scenes there...everyone's suffering there, we only sleep 1 hour per day... "-> poor you, oppa...
When the shooting process of BOF has to take place out of Korea or out of town, all of BOF staff said that now they knew Lee Min Ho's sleeping habit....none of the staff wants to sleep with Min Ho, they said that Min Ho kicks a lot when he sleep, and he's talking gibberish on his sleep...-> -.-"
There was one time when one of BOF staff wakes Lee Min Ho up, because it's already time to start shooting again...but Lee Min Ho kicks that staff for waking him up...-> oppa..-.-"
In Jeju, when Lee Min Ho has to shot a scene where he has to drive a sport car (LOTUS GP 3, he said that it cost around 100 million Korean Won), he had an accident...he's not hurt, but guess what is his reaction when that expensive car hit a pole?? "Woowww, it's a relief that car has insurance, but now i know...an expensive car still could be broke pretty badly in seconds..." -> of course oppa, it's still a car, right??? -.-".
Actually, Min Ho has said that he didn't want to drive since he haven't got a Driving License, so he got a special Driving License for shooting that driving scene...^^ too bad that accident happened...T__T
When Lee Min Ho finally finished Boys Over flowers, he's shocked because it's not his name that became very popular. It's Gu Jun Pyo (구준표) who got popular. He's got confused, so he post a video. Guess what he said on that video ??? he said " My name is Lee Min Ho, not Gu Jun Pyo..." LOL !! ^^ Now, he always said " 네, 안녕하세요, 이민호 입니다..." (Ne, Annyeong Haseyo, Lee Min Ho imnida -> Yes, how are you, my name is Lee Min Ho...), isn't that cute?? LOL...^^
He realize that he can't sing at all, but he really want to learn since he's interested in music. He practice a lot when he have to sing "My Everything" for BOF Soundtrack. But he said that he's being told to do that by Studio Eight, it's not his own will to sing...-.-"
But apart for being told by Studio Eight, he seems enjoy music very much, he learn how to play Piano for a month for a scene that has been cancelled and moved to behind-the-story scene...he seems interested in playing the Violin too, even though his position of holding the violin is all wrong...-.-"
At first Lee Min Ho is not confident that BOF would be a big-hit drama...but one day, he see over 2000 fans waiting for him at the set..at that time, he said " This Drama has made it..." ^^
Lee Min Ho admit that he sleeps a lot, he wants to sleep 10 hour a day (that's too much oppa...-.-") so he's taking every break he got to sleep...one of BOF staff said that Lee Min Ho always sleep when it's not his turn to act, and wake up when it's already his turn...-.-"
Lee Min Ho once breaks record by sleeping 24 hours non-stop...-.-"
But he said that he's quite happy, now that he could sleep 6-8 hours a day...
After BOF era, Lee Min Ho was close to Kim Beom (the one who portrayed So Yi Jeong, member of F4), they meet 3 times a weeks to have lunch together...(how romantic...-.-")
But he admit that he was close to F4, he invite Kim Jun (the one who portrayed Song Woo Bin, member of F4) to his birthday Party on 2009, "Minoz Happy Days". The MC (Kim Ki Bang) interviewed them together, and when Kim Jun said " i have been trying to call Min Ho for a long time...", Min Ho said "Whennnn??" with a lady-like voice, makes Kim Jun look at him with an un-describeable shocked face...-.-"
Lee Min Ho invite Kim Hyun Joong (the one who portrayed Yoon Jin Ho, member of F4, the one that i love before Min Ho, remember??? *ignore this, LOL...^^*) and Kim Beom (the one who portrayed So Yi Jeong, member of F4)...Hyun Joong and Jun manage to come, but too bad Kim Beom can't attend that party...
Kim Jun and his band, T-MAX, even sing the theme song of BOF, "Paradise" on Min Ho's birthday part at 2009, "Minoz Happy Days"..^^
Lee Min Ho was rumored to date Kang Min Kyung (member of Davichi, a girl-band) during BOF era, he knew that this rumor would came up, but he said that Min Kyung is his friend...
Because of the chemistry between Lee Min Ho and Goo Hye Sun (the one who portrayes Geum Jan Di, Jun Pyo's lover), both of them got a fans called "MinSun" that hopes that Min Ho would date Hye Sun...but too bad Min Ho said that he's not close to Hye Sun, he even avoid Hye Sun because he didn't feel well-connected with Hye Sun at first...But as the shooting process goes on, he's getting closer to Hye Sun...both of them respect each other as friends..but Min Ho is very caring to Hye Sun..once he helped Hye Sun when Hye Sun had an accident...*omo, cool...^^*
Min Ho friend on BOF, Lee Min Jeong who act as Han Jae Kyeong (Min Ho's fiancée on BOF ) was interviewed after she finished BOF...she was asked who she choose between Lee Min Ho and Jeong Kyeong Ho and she choose Jeong Kyeong Ho...and could you guess what did Lee Min Ho said when he knew this??? he said "She said that i was her ideal type when we're working on Boys Before Flowers...as soon as she change her job, she change her ideal type too??? i've never considered her too, i only look at Goo Hye Sun when i work on Boys Over Flowers...sorry for that..." -> sounds that you only want to defend yourself, oppa...-.-" but later he said that he's kidding...
Gu Jun Pyo is Lee Min Ho's favorite character because he's the richest...LOL...^^
A comedian Yoon Hyung Bin said to Lee Min Ho what would Min Ho do after Boys Over Flowers aired and ended, Min Ho was so sad, realizing the truth in Hyung Bin's words...he's afraid that BOF will be a temporary success and he can't get another job after that. but now, Min Ho always got a new project after one project is done, right??? ^^

- During Personal Taste (개인의 취향)

Lee Min Ho said that Personal Taste was his first experience in doing a bed scene and he was very embarrassed because there are so many people see him (doing the bed scene)...*omo, oppa...^^*
All of Minoz (Lee Min Ho's fans) was shocked to know that Personal taste was talking about gay lifestyle, all of them ask, did Min Ho would act as gay??? but Lee Min Ho said this: "Don't worry, i'm not a gay, and neither did my character, Jeon Jin Ho!! he was being misunderstood as gay, misunderstood !!!" -> Okay oppa, don't be like that, we totally understand..-.-"
But he said that he's being helped by Son Ye Jin (the one who portaryed Park Gae In, who's gonna be Jeon Jin Ho - Lee Min Ho character's lover ) in doing the bed scene...*omo, what the??? what kind of help??-.-"*
When Lee Min Ho meet Son Ye Jin for the first time, they're doing photograph for the poster of Personal Taste, and guess what ?? what did Lee Min Ho said to Son Ye Jin at that time, when he first met her??? he said "Hey, you...idiot !!!" that makes all of the people in that room goes silent...*oppa, Son Ye Jin eonnie is older than you, you shouldn't have done that....-.-"*
But Lee Min Ho defend him self, he said that he did it to be closer to Son Ye Jin, because the concept of the Personal Taste's poster is a close lover...*you still are not allowed to call her idiot, oppa...-.-"
Lee Min Ho said that he respect Son Ye Jin very much...he said that Son Ye Jin is very well-experienced actress, and he was embarrassed when he called Son Ye Jin "idiot"...*naahh, that's a good boy...kekekeke...^^*
Lee Min Ho said that he was embarrassed when he has to do do the "bathroom" scene, where he has to take a scene in a men's restroom because of diarrhea (in that story, Jin Ho -> Lee Min Ho is having diarrhea because he eats the shell that Park Gae In -> Son Ye Jin cook for him). He's embarassed because he has to TOOK OF HIS PANTS in front of many people (Personal Taste crew) -> LOL !! !^^
After finishing Personal Taste, Son Ye Jin said to public media that Lee Min Ho was a very good kisser and she was satisfied with his kiss...*omo, blush...^^*
Because Lee Min Ho and Son Ye Jin was pretty close to each other, each of them send at "congratulatory" video when each of them has a birthday party...*sweet!!!^^*
During Personal Taste shooting, Lee Min Ho was really close to Jeong Seong Hwa (the one who portrayed Sang Jun - Jin Ho's friend on Personal Taste) and 2AM Seu Long ,he invited them to his birthday party last on 2010, "Special Days with Minoz"...And at that time Jeong Seong Hwa said that during Personal Taste, they always make jokes...
When Lee Min Ho thanked Seung Hwa for coming to his birthday party, Seong Hwa said : "it's allright...because you're my love..." -> omo, i know you guys acted as gay, but please...-.-"
Seung Hwa once said that he often got free meal because of Lee Min Ho...he said that he often eat at restaurant where the waitress knew Min Ho..when the waitress took Seung Hwa's order, Seong Hwa confessed that the waitress ask him: "is Min Ho really cute??" -> -.-"
Jeong Seong Hwa ever mention his experienced with Lee Min Ho...During Personal Taste shooting, Lee Min Ho said to him that he's seeing a restaurant that seems really delicious...to make Min Ho happy, Seong Hwa said to Min Ho where was the restaurant he's talking about, and he'll treat Min Ho there..but guess what?? the food in the restaurant Min Ho mention is really expensive!!! Seong Hwa was really shocked, but he treat Min Ho anyway...*oppa...-.-"*
According to Seong Hwa, Min Ho's skin has a very small pores...and that makes Min Ho laughs...(small pores?? what the?? -.-"). Seong Hwa also said that he was reallly amazed when Min Ho could sit really still when his hair-dresser working on his hair...-.-"
After hearing Seong Hwa's comment about him on Special Days with Minoz 2010, Lee Min Ho said "Aaahhh, i'm so embarassed !!! could i go for a while??? " LOL !!! ^^ and Lee Min Ho then said to Seong Hwa : " You compliments me a lot with a straight face, but i know you're lying..." -> LOL!! ^^
According to Seong Hwa again, Lee Min Ho was so emotional when he played typing-practice game on PC, because Lee Min Ho already gain a high level...
Jeong Seong Hwa interviewed Min Ho via phone on his radio, KISS radio...Seong Hwa called Min Ho when Min Ho rest in his house, they're really cute, seeing them really close to each other...^^
When Seong Hwa called Min Ho for KISS radio interview, Seong Hwa said this :" Annyeong haseyo??, then Min Ho said : " Ne, annyeong haseyo, Jeong Seong Hwa ssi..." (he knew that Seong Hwa called him..)
But then, Jeong Seong Hwa suddenly said " Ne...doushimnika??? " (generally means "Yes..who is this??"), even though he knew that he was calling Min Ho...that makes Min Ho laughs...and he answers "Bangapseumnida, Lee Min Ho imnida..." (he always said his name every time someone interviewed him?? -.-" that generally means "nice to meet you, i'm Lee Min Ho..)
Seong Hwa said that he was testing Lee Min Ho at that time..what the??? -.-"
Min Ho always seems to spoiled by Seong Hwa when Seung Hwa called him for an interview...Lee Min Ho said "Hyung nim...let's go to Personal Taste's fan-meeting together with me...", and of course Seung Hwa said yes...-.-"
Youn Ha, the singer for Personal Taste's theme song "말도 안왜" / "Nonsense" was invited by Min Ho to attend his birthday party on 2010 too...and at that time, Youn Ha cut her hair for Min Ho because she's a big fan of Min Ho...^^
When Youn Ha sang as a guest at Special Days with Minoz, she was asked by the MC (in front of Lee Min Ho) : " Youn Ha ssi, when you sing 말도 안왜 (Nonsense), what's in your mind??? ", but suddenly a very naughty guy (our Lee Min Ho of course), cut their conversation : " what's on her mind?? 말도 안왜 ?? " (Lee Min Ho thought that Youn Ha was thinking simply about "nonsense /it can't be" when she sing that song ) -> you're not answering the question at all, Min Ho oppa...-.-"
Lee Min Ho's favourite character in Personal Taste : Minomi (he admit bravely that Minomi the Lion Doll was his figure character, and he said that Minomi had a long legs...) -> -.-"
Lee Min Ho was paid 60 Million Korean Won for taking a part in Personal Taste (16 Episode) -> special facts from Aka @en.korea.com

- General Life

"Lee Min Ho" was his original name, but he has worked under a fake name for two years before his debute. His stage name was "Lee Min" (이민) and he use it for two years. Guess why he use that name as his stage name??? because it's easily remembered. "이민" means "Immigration/Immigrant" in Korean..Lee Min Ho himself said that if he used his stage name, his name would come out in every passport...-.-"
Lee Min Ho lives in a apartment with his father, mother and older sister..his apartement is in Sangdo-dong, Dongjak-ku, Seoul, South Korea...They move to Sangdo-dong area because Lee Min Ho buy an apartment for all of his family when Min Ho debuted...but now he's buying another apartment (move again) to Heuk Seuk dong area, back to his hometown, i guess?? he'll be neighbor with Hyun Bin dan Jang Dong Gun... -> how rich he is??? -.-"
Lee Min Ho's car -> Silver Mercedes Benz -> hhhhiiyaaaa !!! -.-"
Lee Min Ho is a smoker and a alcoholic drinker...but he's not a heavy smoker, and he could only handle 4 cups of Soju / 2 glass of beer..
Lee Min Ho always brought perfume in his bag, because he wanted to be a fragrant guy...^^
Lee Min Ho inspirational person is his mother, because he thought that she's helping him a lot in his career...but he love his fans very much...
For Lee Min Ho, his family is his "One and Only", his family and fans are the most important thing for him..he once said that he's practically lived by his fans..
All of his childhood friends said that Lee Min Ho were popular among them, especially girls...not because of his face that simply handsome, but also because he's kind...^^
Lee Min Ho often said that his family was not rich from the beginning, his family is an ordinary family...(but i bet his family is so rich right now because of Min Ho!! LOL..)
Lee Min Ho's mother once said that he found 2 girls fighting to get Lee Min Ho's attention when Lee Min Ho was still in kindergarten -> omo, already??? LOL...^^
Lee Min Ho's older sister, Lee Jun Kyung, also join the entertainment world lately, but he don't want to be recognized as Lee Min Ho's sister, so she doesn't often show up near Lee Min Ho...and Lee Min Ho doesn't want to be known as Jun Kyung's little brother, so he act the same...-> omooo...
Lee Min Ho's father is a business man who doesn't like publicity, so he doesn't show up himself...
All of Lee Min Ho's neighbor said that Lee Min Ho was handsome since he was a kid, so they force Lee Min Ho and his mum to make Lee Min Ho participate in a audition to be an actor...
Lee Min Ho start his career as a actor when he secretly enter an audition...he reject them at first when he was little but he at last secretly enter a audition...
Lee Min Ho is still noted as a student in Konkuk University, majoring in Film-Making...but he's still on break because of his busy schedule...
Lee Min Ho was actually a good soccer player. Before he became an actor, he want to become a soccer player because he even trained by Cha Bum Kun (a very good Korean Soccer Player). He likes Cristiano Ronaldo and said that Manchester United was his favorite Football Club. (i think he likes Park Ji Sung too, but too embarrassed to show it..)
Lee Min Ho was disappointed to know that some of his fans doubt him and ask him if he had a plastic surgery...it's because one of a plastic surgery clinic show his photos as one of their patients..he confessed that he once had a accident when he played soccer...He broke his nose an it has to be fixed (with a surgery), but it's not a big plastic surgery...
Lee Min Ho once had a accident on 2006 when he should rest for 6 months...he broke his leg and it has to had surgery, doctors plant a silver plate on his leg...he said that it's his saddest moment... he's just debuting and he got an accident...he admits that he's crying at that moment...This accident makes him bury his dream to become a soccer player (a soccer player can't have a silver-plate related surgery, especially on his/her legs).
Lee Min Ho is "ambidextrous" -> means he could use both of his right and left hand without any difficulty (he could even write using his left hand) because of an injury that force him to use his left hand since his right hand is injured. He learned how to do his activity using his left hand and now, he's able to use his left hand as good as his right hand...^^ -> wwooaa, how cool !! ^^
Lee Min Ho once said that he love social networking, but the truth is, it seems that he rarely update his Twitter, Facebook account, Sina account and Cyworld account...he even open an official Twitter and FaceBook account because there's a so many fake account that already use his name...
When he finally open a Twitter Account and FaceBook account, Lee Min Ho said that he realize how important English language were, so he's learning English very hard right now...lately, Staff of Starhaus said that they make Min Ho study English by always talking to Min Ho using English...Jeong Seong Hwa (Min Ho's friend on Personal Taste) also said that Min Ho should learn English...but his English was truly not good...on Singapore fan meeting, he said " i like drive..." when he should've said " i like driving...", LOL...there are many mistypes on his tweet also, but let's pray that Lee Min Ho would be good in English soon !!! ^^ (but i think, all of Starhaus staff was not good in English too, they often mistyped also, LOL...)
When Lee Min Ho got over than 1 Million fans on FaceBook, he held an event...he said that he'll answer some of his fans's questions on Twitter..and he did answer a few !!! ^^
But he rarely answer his fans's questions...he even only follow one of Starhaus's staff on his account...he once follow Kim Beom, and several of his friends like Kim Ki Bang and Kim So Roo (even ask them for a follow back) but he unfollowed them now...T___T
Lee Min Ho once said that he often read what his fans wrote for him in his Twitter account when he had free time (without replying??? that's too bad -.-") and he said that his fans really made him laugh...-.-"
Maybe Lee Min Ho laugh because we Minoz were really funny. Some Minoz that's curious with him often asked if the Twitter Account is really his, his answer to one fan who asked that question was "Yes it's really me, why don't you believe me??" (i bet he's laughing when he read that kind of question).
Lee Min Ho's secret wish is to had a girlfriend...he already had 2 girlfriends before, once on his High School and once on University..his first kiss is when he's on High School, in front of his girlfriend's house !! ^^ but lately, he changed his mind..he said he want to get married when he's over 30...His ideal marriage is of course his parent's marriage and he believes that marriage should be once in a life time. He don't want to divorce later with his wife, and he's afraid that married young will make him divorced with his wife (he talks about the superstitions around him).
When he's still in a relationship with his ex-girlfriend, Lee Min Ho said that he once called his girlfriend for 13 hours !!! what are you two talking about, oppa?? ^^
Lee Min Ho's type of girl is the pretty actress Song Hye Kyo (Full House), but too bad Song Hye Kyo is in a relationship with Hyun Bin. Song Hye Kyo is his type of ideal woman. Lee Min Ho once said that he want to meet Song Hye Kyo noona (since she's older than him) and congratulate her for finding her love already...But now, since Hyun Bin and Song Hye Kyo just broke up, would Lee Min Ho fill the position as Song Hye Kyo's new boyfriend ?? would he replace Hyun Bin soon??? LOL...^^
Lee Min Ho's ideal type of woman : not too tall ( since he's so tall ), clear-skinned (since he's a little bit dark-skinned), mature but cute and sometimes klutzy or clumsy...he will also like the kind of woman who can get along well with him on the first time he saw her, acting like she's already married to him and connected to him..plus, he would like a woman who knows how to respect elders...For Lee Min Ho, his feelings to the woman is more important than her physical appearance..in this case, his ideal type is Song Hye Kyo...but later in 2012, Lee Min Ho seems to revise his statement, he said that he likes Song Hye Kyo's character in "Full House", seems not really the person.
Lee Min Ho said that he got no problem dating a woman that's even 10 years older than him...even if he date a woman that's 10 years older than him, he said that he'll find a nickname for her...^^
Lee Min Ho didn't care about his girlfriend's clothing style...as long as his girlfriend were confident with her own style, he won't feel disturbed...he thought that his woman should appear charming at all time..
But for his own fashion style, Lee Min Ho said that he don't want to stand out...he prefers neutral colors such as Navy Blue, Black,White and Gray...
Lee Min Ho was once asked if he found his true love in one of his fans, would he chase her??? he said that he would, because he believe that we as humans won't know what fate (especially about love) would do to us...-> nice !!! ^^
On the other hand, Lee Min Ho said that he often receive love confessions from fans, but lately on 2012 he really want to be honest to his fans that he didn't plan to get married at the moment. (as time goes by, i guess it's getting harder to look for a true love for such a famous person like him, he should want a girl that loves him for who he is, not because he's handsome and popular or rich). Lee Min Ho also would like to remind his fans that he's not perfect at all, and lacking in many aspects, and perfect man can only be found in movies or novels...For all of his fans who loves him, Lee Min Ho said that he want his fans to cherish themselves.
If Lee Min Ho already find his true love and his parents, even all of people around him didn't allow him to be with his girlfriend, Lee Min Ho said that he would surely run away with his girlfriend because he know that he would love his girlfriend so much, so he have to run away...but later in 2012, he said that he was only kidding, he won't run away from his parents with his girlfriend..maybe he will try hard to make his parents like his girlfriend..-> wwwooowww !! ^^
When he got a girlfriend after this, without no doubt Lee Min Ho said that he'll call his girlfriend every 3 hours, because he'll miss her voice...
Lee Min Ho said that he need a neat girlfriend since he's not neat...his mother is the one who cleans his room and he need a neat girlfriend to clean up his room...
Lee Min Ho also said that he needs a girl who respects elderly..maybe he will prefer a girl who calls him "Lee Min Ho ssi" that "Oppa" at the first time he meet her, Lee Min Ho seems to not look so happy when girls call him "Oppa".
If Lee Min Ho walks in a beach with his girlfriend, he'll definitely hold her hands while walking, and ask her to roll her pants, if she wore pants, LOL...
The reason Lee Min Ho imagine his girlfriend wearing pants it's probably because he doesn't want people who's close to him to wear short skirts or pants. He won't mind outsiders or fans wearing short skirts or pants in front of him, but he won't allow his girlfriend to wear short skirts or pants, he even feel uncomfortable when his sister wears short skirts or pants, because he's close to his sister.
If Lee Min Ho has a girlfriend, he said that we would prefer to hide the relationship from everyone (keep it a secret..of course, he's a popular actor) and try to run with his girlfriend to a beautiful church for their wedding ceremony...-> how sweet!!! ~^^
Many of his friends said that Lee Min Ho is a very romantic man...and it's proofed at one of his fanmeet in Singapore (for promoting LG)...one of the fan ask him: "What kind of woman do you prefer?? " (Attention, the question is in English!! ^^) and he suddenly says "Uuhhmm...YOU ???" , then he laugh and smile happily, making his fans screams !!! -> Oommooo, Melting !!! what a lucky fan that got that answer !!! but why you didn't say that your type is Song Hye Kyo, oppa?? LOL...^^
In a interview, Lee Min Ho was asked if he's a good kisser, but he said no...he said that there's no standard in good kissing, but he knew that every actress that work with him were satisfied with his kissing ability...LOL...^^
Once he was showed a big Minomi (his figurine character on Personal Taste) on his birthday party and he's a little bit shocked when he see that big Minomi. He admit that Minomi was his figurine character...and what's his comment when he saw that big Minomi?? " He has a long legs, just like me...but he's not wearing any pants??? " -> and why did you say that, oppa?? -.-"
And when he was asked because of his comment to Minomi he admit that he's just like Minomi...Without hestitate, on his brithday party event, he said that he didn't wear any shirt when he's on home, and sometimes just wear an underwear...-> WWWHHAATT?? LET'S CHECK !! ^^
Lee Min Ho said that he watch porn movies when he was on high school, more than once..defending himself by saying that every guy in Korea watch porn movies at that time...-.-" and he said that he didn't watch them lately...-.-" -> should we believe in this?? -.-"
Lee Min Ho got a female Mini Pinscher dog named "Choco" , and he called his dog "her", not "it" -> LOL..^^
When he was asked who's the person that is the closest with Choco, he or his mom, he'll answer "my older sister...", the truth is, Choco is the closest to her older sister..
Lee Min Ho said that Choco were very close to his sister because when he adopt Choco, Choco were still very small and she can't open her eyes...Choco sleep and eat on his older sister's room and she's being treated by her older sister, so Choco consider Jun Kyung as her mother...
But Lee Min Ho said that Choco always consider his room as a restroom...-.-" He defend himself by saying that it's because of his mother who always said to Choco "if you want to go to the restroom, go to Min Ho's room so that he could make a lot of money..." -> what the??? -.-"
Lee Min Ho seems to love Choco a lot...he post Choco's photos 2 times on his Twitter Account with a caption "What are you looking at?? " -> close up photo of Choco and he post his photos holding Choco in a bench on Saturday Evening, on his Twitter account -> it seems that you're dating with Choco, oppa??? -.-"
Lee Min Ho was close to actors Kim Bum and Jung Il Woo...three of them always give surprise to each other when of them had a birthday party...Min Ho once give a surprise visit on Il Woo's birthday party and Min Ho invite Il Woo and Kim Bum on his birthday party...-> could i say that all of you were romantic?? kekekeke...^^
Lee Min Ho is the closest to Kim Bum...he once ride a bike with Kim Bum at Han river (around midnight) and post that photos on his Twitter, almost at the same time when Kim Bum post his photos with him on his Twitter account too...it's funny when all of their fans see their photos, together, riding bike...LOL...^^-> how romantic...-.-"
But before the riding event, Min Ho and Kim Bum once seen together eating lunch together too, and taking pictures together too...when Kim Bum visit Indonesia, he said that he often meet Min Ho..at least 3 times a week to had lunch...-> Jinca???? -.-"
When Kim Bum can't come to Min Ho's birthday party on 2009, he sends a video message to Min Ho, apologize because he couldn't come to his birthday party...Yoon Hyung Bin, Jung Il Woo and Kim Rae Woon sends him a video too...but Min Ho only reacts to Kim Bum's video...-.-" he said "괜찮아, 범 아..." (Gwaenchana, Beom-ah...- generally means " it's allright, Beom..." ) when Kim Bum apologize, but he didn't say anything when he saw other video...LOL...
Believe it or not, Lee Min Ho LOVES it when people praise him and call him "handsome" -> -.-" , but he always said that there's a lot of people that's a lot more handsome that him..^^ But Lee Min Ho prefers his image to be manly, he's not comfortable when people calls him "Flower Boy"
Lee Min Ho was asked once during AERA Magazine photoshoot in Japan, he was asked : "Lee Min Ho ssi, you're so handsome and shining...don't you ever fall in love with yourself when you look at yourself at the mirror???" -> what kind of question is this?? -.-" That question makes Lee Min Ho speechless, but he laughed for a while (but he's still concentrate on the photo session) and he said "No, never..." quickly...LOL..^^
One of Super Junior's member, Shin Dong test how much he look alike with Min Ho and he got 24% and he apologize because of it... Min Ho know this and he's laughing when he was interviewed, he said that Shin Dong shouldn't apologize because it's fun...but when the interviewee said Shin Dong's comments where Shin Dong said that he look 100% just like Min Ho, Min Ho looks so shocked and said " 100%??" -> fatal proof that you're proud of your face...-.-"
Lee Min Ho would want his face back (his handsome face back), if he's rebirth again...and he want to be continually on his 20s forever...-> -.-"
He was asked once on 2009 : " Please choose between those three, reasons why you were selected as Trugen's Model, 1. Because you're handsome...2, because you're tall...3. Because you're handsome, tall and fit their clothes perfectly...", and guess what?? he choose number 3...-.-"
When he was asked to spell his name, Lee Min Ho would answer like this : " 이, 이민호 는....민, 민접 하다...호, 호호호호호..." -> generally means " Lee...Lee Min Ho is...Min, mincheob hada...(an agile man...) Ho, hohohohoho.... -> agile?? hohohohoho?? what the?? -.-"
When Lee Min Ho held a fan meeting, the concept would be almost the same, he'll talk about "fun", "happines" , "special", etc...he'll interact much with Minoz (his fans) by accepting their gifts, playing with them, etc...he even hug some of his fans who got upstage...*envy!!! ^^*
Min Ho is only good at Korean, but he's learning English and Japanese...on his Japanese fan-meeting (His Japanese fans were called MJ - Minoz Japan) he's repeating his opening speech to MJ on his way to the backstage...he keep on saying " Today, we'll have fun..." in Japanese so many times that makes all of the people around him go speechless...
And when Lee Min Ho practicing say " MJ no minna-san, Konbanwa...Lee Min Ho desu...ogenkidesuuuukaaa??" (generally means : MJ friends, good night, i'm Lee Min Ho...have you all been great?? ) in the backstage in a funny way, a staff reply him by saying "ogenki desu.." (means "i'm great.."), LOL..^^
Since Lee Min Ho is very popular in China, he's trying to study Chinese to impress his fans. But once, when his fans ask him how his Chinese is progressing, without doubt Lee Min Ho said that his Chinese was nothing better than a 3-month-old-baby...^^
Even with Chinese Minoz, Lee Min Ho's always funny. On a interview with Chinese Minoz on Weibo, a Chinese Minoz asked if it's really him on Weibo. Maybe he's tired of that question, he said "No, i'm Lee Yoon Seong.." (It's after City Hunter), LOL..~^^
After a photo shoot with Trugen, a camerawoman take a shoot of Min Ho resting on his room...Lee Min Ho look at the camera for a few minute...but the camerawoman said this : "Lee Min Ho ssi, you don't have to look at the camera...", but what did Lee Min Ho did?? he STARE at the camera for a few minutes, makes the camerawoman speechless and her hands were shaking because she feel nervous, makes Lee Min Ho laugh and said " Oooiii...", LOL...*see?? who won't feel nervous if you stare at them?? LOL...^^*
Lee Min Ho has a talent of making woman nervous through his eyes. Once he came to the Philippines to meet his fans there and become the new brand ambassador for "Bench". During the fan event, he held a "Staring Contest" with one of the fan there. Both of them should continually stare at each other and the one who first looked away lose and guess what?? Lee Min Ho ssi won and he looks so happy..-.-" (Of Course!!! it's not fair!!! Staring Contest with him?? of course all of his fans will lose if he stare at them!!)
Lee Min Ho is very melancholic and sentimental during autumn, but he didn't know why...^^
When Lee Min Ho was asked what did he do on Christmas, guess what Lee Min Ho answer is "i think it'll be depressing if i just hang out with my guy friends, so i stayed at home..." -.-" -> Min Ho ssi, it's more depressing if you stay at home during Christmas !!!!!! -.-"
Lee Min Ho's favorite place seems to be London, England and United States. He often said that they are his favorite places because he's convenient with London and United States's food and weather. Food and Weather seems to be his concerned, whenever he go, apart form his family. He once mention that he's convenient with London's style, with the people and architecture. I personally believe that he prefers place where he can get some private space, even though he loves his fans.
Lee Min Ho loves to travel, but he choose wisely. There is one time he want to go to Las Vegas because he heard that it is amazing, but when he went there in person, he didn't like it too much. Lately, he prefers places that can bring him closer to nature and he mention South Africa, and perhaps countries that near the equator for vacation.
When Lee Min Ho was asked but did he do with his free time and what did he want to do during his free time, all of Lee Min Ho's answer will be the same, he usually sleeps a lot, eat a lot of good food (he used to think about quantity of the food, but recently he changed to quality) or playing video/computer games. Furthermore, the most important thing for him is spending time with his family.
Lee Min Ho is careful about his image in front of his fans. Sometimes he will search his name to look what fans thought about him, even look at the photos to see his published photos. There was once he was asked by Kim Hee Sun (his partner in "The Faith") on a interview program. Kim Hee Sun said that once Jung Il Woo (his best friend) said that Lee Min Ho didn't have a good first impression. Lee Min Ho said that it's correct. Many people misunderstood him as a drinker, loves to have fun, and a womanizer or playboy at first. He correct them all by saying that he's not a drinker, and he prefers to stay at home with his family, rather than going with people he didn't feel close enough to go with.

- During City Hunter (시티헌터)

Lee Min Ho's project : " City Hunter" where he'll acts as Lee Yoon Seong (이윤성) ,graduate from MIT (Massachusetts Institue of Technology - one of the top Universities in the world) and work at Korea's Blue House (just like USA's White House) as an technology communication staff...he got a lot of ability and he's clever, but he's weak around beautiful women...-> just like Rain's character in "Fugitive Plan B". When he already finished "City Hunter", he hold a fan talk on his Weibo for his Chinese Fans. One of his fans ask him "Are you really Lee Min Ho?? ", and his answer was "No..i'm Lee Yoon Seong..." ^^ (I guess he's too tired to answer that kind of question..LOL..^^)
He's taking scenes at Thailand from 24th of March until 31st of March or around beginning of April..At first the's taking scenes in the Damnernsaduak Floating Market on Rajchaburi, Thailand...this location is opened for his fans, so his fans could see him..
When Lee Min Ho shoot scenes on the Floating Market, he's staying and Chatrium Hotel, Thailand...and he's caught looking at some sexy bikini girls's photos...-> -.-"
There's a scene at Chatrium Hotel...all of his bodyguard and his management told Min Ho to go out from the hotel from the back door since so many fans were waiting for him at the front door of the hotel, but he said that he'll got out from the front door, because he knew that his fans were there...^^ -> wooowww !! ^^
Start from the 28 of March, Lee Min Ho moved to KanChaNaBuri area, Thailand where he'll shoot scenes on the forest, but this area were closed to his fans...At KanChaNaBuRi province, he's staying at P-Guest House Hotel...and the 31st, he'll go back to Bangkok and at the 1st of April he'll go to Suphanburi for the shooting process again...he's coming back to Korea on early morning at 3rd April, resuming shooting on Korea on 5th April...he showed up himself on Gwang Hwan Mun, on the making process of City Hunter...^^
During the making of "City Hunter", Lee Min Ho has to attend a Cantata Event at Jeju Island, for a Golf Tournament and Lee Hyo Ri (a pretty Korean Model) attend that event to, had a chance to meet him and they had lunch together with all of the people who attend that lunch event. Lee Min Ho looks so awkward with Lee Hyo Ri...they're sitting together, side by side by seems that they're not talking to each other much. But Lee Min Ho defends himself that he's talking to Lee Hyo Ri about several things. and when he's asked what Lee Hyo Ri's advice to him, he said "Our relationship is not that close for her to give me advice..."
During making of City Hunter, There's a time when Lee Min Ho has to do many action scenes. After doing the scene, Lee Min Ho suddenly lie on the ground. All of City Hunter's staff was shocked and worried if he passed out because he's too tired, or even sick, or worse, dying. But then all of the staff realized that Lee Min Ho is actually SLEEPING ON THE FLOOR...-.-"
Because of his charm with Park Min Young (the one who portrayed Kim Na Na, Lee Yoon Seong's lover), Lee Min Ho was rumored to date her. He was seen with Min Young at a cafe and bowling place. They even have fans called MinMin, but the truth is Lee Min Ho was only friend with Park Min Young and they meet for a casual drink, and the paparazzi is making the rumor by themselves.

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Monday, December 16, 2013

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Saturday, December 14, 2013

American History in VOA Special English (ESL/EFL)

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Thursday, December 12, 2013

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Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Sunday, December 8, 2013

Monday, December 2, 2013

The Heirs : KDramaStars

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~ ♥ My Life ♥ ~: All About Lee Min Ho

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Lee Min Ho / 이민호

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The Imaginary World of Monika: Lee Min Ho Funny Facts

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Thursday, November 28, 2013

MY DREAM LIFE: LEE MIN HO NEWS & VIDEOS

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Wednesday, November 20, 2013

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Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Sunday, October 27, 2013

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Friday, October 11, 2013

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Wednesday, September 18, 2013

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Saturday, September 14, 2013

江山如此多娇

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Tuesday, September 10, 2013

Soondubu jjigae (soft tofu stew) recipe - Maangchi.com

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Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Solo Travel Hostel Stories - the good, the bad and the ugly. | Solo Traveler

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Sunday, September 1, 2013

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　　我是超级美剧迷。

　　　　最新公告：近期会陆续删除一些不值得观看的剧集的消息，因为之前对新剧也有所介绍，但是新剧中有些质素很差，所以会将这些剧集删去，尤其是一些质素又差又已经被砍掉的剧集。　　我的微博：http://weibo.com/edward1220 　　　　这个新豆列列出的都是一些经典剧集，如果你想看一些非常棒的美剧，请进入：http://movie.douban.com/doulist/982787/ 　　　　PS：　　1 这里的美剧只是个统称，包括部分的英剧、加拿大剧和澳大利亚剧。　　2 列表中的剧集都是我看过或者正在看的，没看的都没列上，因为不好评价，也不好推荐。　　3 没有全跟的剧集都有写，不多。　　4 大家可以就所有的剧集展开讨论，信息共享。有什么好看的新剧也可以介绍给大家。　　5 这个豆列一直都在更新，前面的剧集较老，后面的剧集较新，也包括部分未播但备受期待的剧集。

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Thursday, August 29, 2013

中国工人在夜生活中逃避现实压力 - 纽约时报中文网国际纵览

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Wednesday, August 28, 2013

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Tuesday, August 27, 2013

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Monday, August 26, 2013

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Friday, August 23, 2013

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Thursday, August 22, 2013

快�的物�女孩: [夏日�末] �帕酒�小�

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Tuesday, August 20, 2013

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Monday, August 19, 2013

中国古代史地图集

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古代史上影响中国的100次事件

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鲁迅 hanwenxue.com - Google Search

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Friday, August 16, 2013

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Wednesday, August 14, 2013

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Thursday, August 8, 2013

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Wednesday, August 7, 2013

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Saturday, August 3, 2013

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Wednesday, July 31, 2013

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Thursday, July 25, 2013

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Tuesday, July 23, 2013

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Monday, July 22, 2013

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对手

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Friday, July 19, 2013

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王老汉_新浪博客

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Thursday, July 18, 2013

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Tuesday, July 16, 2013

宁财神_新浪博客

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Monday, July 15, 2013

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Friday, July 12, 2013

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Wednesday, July 10, 2013

50 essential photography tips | Reviews | CNET UK

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Sunday, June 30, 2013

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Wednesday, June 26, 2013

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Monday, June 24, 2013

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Friday, June 21, 2013

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Tuesday, June 18, 2013

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Monday, June 17, 2013

暧昧让人受尽委屈_107286274 - Niubo.cc

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暧昧让人受尽委屈_107286274

这个故事已经是过去式了，但泡妞博一段时间之后，发现好多妞周围都会有暧昧的男人，我曾经迷茫过、痛苦过，所以想分享出来。写的有些长。

我从小父母疼爱、家庭环境相对简单，80后的我是无忧无虑的长大的，父母对我要求甚少。上了大学，谈了两任男朋友，他们都给予了我青春最美好的回忆，他俩都考取了研究生，一个比我大两届，一个比我大一届，初恋跟我说他要去读研所以要跟我分手，我坦然接受了；第二任男朋友我非常喜欢他，他什么都没说突然切断了联系消失的，当时我很难过，不知该如何面对，但后来找到了工作、去了新的地方，慢慢就好了起来。

大学毕业后我从事财务工作，一直从小喽啰做起，慢慢做到项目主管、部门主管，对自己的工作情况也比较满意，但工作的五六年我一直没有谈恋爱，当时是觉得没有遇到合适的人，现在想来其实是我自己对恋爱这件事一直在刻意回避，男生邀我吃饭看电影我会找借口说天气不好、太远了之类的而拒绝，久而久之也就没了男人缘，那时的我可能也年轻，觉得自己每天上班下班、挣的钱全部自己花挺好的，也没急着谈朋友。

2011年，我在前一单位已经做了六年，也就是说已经进入一个疲软期，那个时候觉得自己已经做到头了，想申请国外的MBA拓宽下眼界，然后大概6月份的时候在一个申请交流的群里认识了一个跟我不在同城的男生，一个没想到会跟我发生交集的男生。

当时在群里他总是主动跟我打招呼，后面慢慢聊得多了我知道我们居然是同一所大学、同一届毕业的，只是那时不是同一个学院，谁也不认识谁。后面私下加了双方的QQ，以便于双方私聊，但也基本上以工作、申请为主，他对我就是纯粹意义上的"校友+网友"。在这一年里，我老板在没有通知我的情况下一纸调令把我从财务部调到人事部，在我花了近半年时间全部理顺之后又在完全不知会我的情况下调回财务部，我找过他好几次，但他都说自己忙没时间跟我沟通，于是我主动递交了辞呈，10月正式离职。

也许是校友的关系，我对他有着天然的亲切感，好多话也愿意跟他说，我跟这个男生一直都是网络联系，刚开始联系的比较频繁，基本上时不时都会聊下这样子。到后面我们交换了手机号码。2012年春节，我们各自回到老家过年，他比我大一岁，我们俩个都到了适婚年龄，自然会面临家庭的催婚压力，他过春节的时候打电话给我，说他表哥、表弟都带女朋友回家过年了，他把我搬出来了，我说我七大姑八大姨也有催我，我也把你搬出来了。

后来我们大年初六在上海机场见的面，第一次见面。很短暂的交流，他就登机回自己的城市了，我也坐着动车回了自己的小窝。其实我对他的了解就仅限于网络以及短短的见面，12年的3月份，有一天晚上我喝的有点多，然后给他打了电话，问他"你觉得我们俩个有发展的可能吗？"他说"有，但我对异地恋没什么信心，顺其自然吧。"我挂了电话，我很理解顺其自然的意思，就是可要可不要，然后好些日子没理他，然后3、4、5这三个月份他一直QQ、短信、电话我，我一直沉默；他会在我每条微博下面留言，我朋友圈我的好看的衣服什么的他也会留言，说你买吧，你穿这个一定会好看之类的，我也没怎么理他；或者他会直接圈我MBA学校的信息、情侣耳机什么的。

直到5月底他要来我所在的省份，回母校，他Q我，我才回复了他几句，这样我们就算又和好了。他顺道来了我的城市，不巧的是我那天姨妈来了，我疼到在床上打滚儿，他在闹市区等我，他等不住了就直接去了上海。后面他有些不高兴，我跟他解释了，我说我那个时候出不了门，他说你可以直接叫我去你家的，最起码可以端茶倒水什么的。其实我当时脑子里是有那个想法的，但考虑到两人不怎么熟悉，又没有其他人所以就没叫他。

6、7月份我们还是不在一个城市，但每天各种联系，我自己是有种在谈恋爱的感觉的，那个时候我就定了8月份要去香港，顺便去他的城市看他，所以我一直都期盼着下次见面。

8月我去了他的城市，他来机场接了我，然后带我去吃了宵夜，然后他回他家，我住酒店。第二天我去了香港，朋友打算在他的城市开个分公司，请我过去参观他的总部、顺便邀请我加盟，我没有直接告诉他，我说我是去旅游的，实际上我在香港的三天都是在谈跟工作有关的事情。后面我从香港返回他的城市，他还是车接车送，请吃饭，我觉得不好意思，所以帮他买了件T。晚上我们吃了饭、去了酒吧，他送我回酒店的路会跟我发生肢体接触，在酒店办理入住手续时，他把手放在我拿皮夹的手上，会捏我的脖子、拍我的肩和背。只是进了房间，我很不知所措的站着，他躺在床上说了些无关紧要的话，然后他起身走了。他要是说那抱一下吧我应该也不会拒绝，但他没有。

后来他送我去了机场，我在机场很依依不舍的用手臂用力勾住他的脖子，但他只是在我的腰间拍了拍，然后把我轻轻的推开。我当时的直觉告诉我他对于我的离开是如释重负，但这仅仅是脑中的一个闪念。

我回到自己的城市，他除了一条"到家了告诉我一声"的短信之外再无他言，基本上都是我主动找他，给他短信他回的、电话他接的，但我总觉得哪里不对，我一直希望他能够跟我表白，也就是说能跟他确定关系，但他一直没反应，后来我问他"你打算一直跟我这样暧昧下去吗？"他说"我现在真的对感情的事没什么想法，我觉得挺对不起你的"，"能再给我一点点时间吗？"我在QQ上跟他说本来我想着我们也算私底下相处过了，可以确定关系了，可没想到你一直都是这个态度，那就不要联系了，于是我删除了他的手机号码、QQ、微信，微博也取消了关注。

11月份时，一个跟我俩都熟知的女孩儿（跟他同城）给了我一个电话，她说他俩人一起吃饭，那个男生提起我表示很无奈，说不定我已经有男朋友了。那天我正好跟父母在电话里争吵了几句，而且看到他在我QQ朋友网里留下的来访痕迹，我又主动给他打了电话。我们聊了近一个小时，我从他接到电话的那一刻自作多情的听到了他的惊讶甚至小兴奋。我打给他的时候可能他在洗澡，他不是一下就接到的，所以有几个未接，他后面给我短信"我不可能不接你电话的"。

12月我回母校参加校庆，当天真的特别想他，觉得他要是跟我在一起就好了之类的，打电话给他，要求无论如何都要见一面，因为再见不到觉得自己会崩溃。我甚至订机票想去找他，当时很冲动，觉得大不了就上床，也许SEX能解决我们之间的一切问题，能结束我无休止的思念的痛苦，但被好友拦了下来。而他允诺1月来看我。

我们俩个讲好的电话、短信他都做不到，说好的晚上讲电话，我有时在外面跟朋友吃饭，手机没电了急得要死，可到家充上电发现会有老妈的未接来电提醒，而没有他的。我质问他，他说他不解释；有时讲好的要发的短信，他说他在应酬，要我相信他，不要看他说的，看他怎么做的。我真的随时都在跟他说"我想你"，他则难得说。身处异地，短信、电话是唯一够得到的联系。我提出不再联系，他回复我"我知道自己无耻，但我是真的在乎你"，又或者我闹得再凶一点，他会讲"如果我们两个都读了MBA就在一起"，这于我而言更像是空头支票。但与此同时我贪恋着他给予我的够不到的温柔体贴。

2013年1月他曾经承诺的会面没有实现，原因很简单，他没有假期，而且春节前工作忙，我也理解。中旬的时候我提出冷静一下，看看怎么处理这段关系，他照做了。

2月春节，我回老家过年，在回家的路上，我们不知聊起什么了，我问他"如果我不是现在这个样子你还要我吗？"他回复我"我现在也没说要你啊。。。"过了一会儿他又说"嘿嘿。。。你别多想啦"，我只记得当时手机在手里微微一震。

年三十的时候我打电话给他，我心里真的很难受，说要不就不联系了，真的得想办法解决这件事，他说"我知道，所以觉得很对不起你"、"那要不就不联系了，大家都狠一点"。后面我不知道自己当时脑子是怎么想的，跟他说"要不我们结婚吧"，他回答说"就见了两面。。。"一会儿又说"那等你下次来我带你去见我父母"，我问他以什么身份去见，他回答当然是女朋友。。。我当时的反应不是开心，而是他一定是骗我的，但我们都很快挂了电话。

年三十、大年初一他都很难得的主动发短信给我，但没聊几句他就去忙了，大年初五是情人节，我一直在等他的短信，如果他拿我当女朋友，怎么可能什么表示都没有，可是直到晚上十一点他都没有任何丝毫的反应。我受够了他的各种对不起、各种我也不知道该怎么办、各种不解释、以及有意无意的冷漠，于是我跟他提了结束，彻底结束。

这段关系让我沉醉其中无法自拔，这更像是一个人的爱恋，一个我跟想象中的人谈的恋爱。可能我太过投入，因此真的等自己下手切断的时候我真的好痛，所以我时不时还会给他发发短信，但基本上都是很理智的，大意就是"我知道自己不是你的菜，谢谢你"之类的。再加上在父母身边，所以没有那么强烈的反应。

3月我回到自己一个人的小窝，所有的疼痛都突然爆发，我每天哭、彻夜哭，枕巾、枕套基本上都是湿的，甚至哭的昏倒在洗手间里。我只能以毒攻毒，断断续续给他发短信，只希望他哪怕能说一句话。我是有多变态才会这么做，心里想离开这个男人，自己又离不开，只能把踹人的权利交给他。

他一直没有回复，直到有一天我的好姐妹替我写了条"我还没有彻底放下你"的短信，他才回复了我，"我们已经结束了，我也接受了，还要继续纠结吗？我忙了"。再后面我用去酒吧喝酒、找朋友聊天等等方式去尽量遗忘，但还是会发只言片语给他，他回复："我们的事把你伤害这么深不是我愿意看到的，我知道这是我的问题，你要怎样才能放下，我知道是我伤害了你，我没有想去戏弄你，之前是真的有喜欢你的。""对不起，我真的不知道会这样，我是个彻头彻尾的混蛋，我配不上你，我不想把你伤害这么深，你不要再这么颓废了。""我什么时候耍你？我都想带你见我父母了，我都想和你开始了，可你自己说要和我结束的，你自己开口说不在一起的，现在说这些也没什么意义了，我们已经结束了，你不要折磨你自己！""我这个无赖不值得你这样，你遇人不淑。""情人节你把我甩了"。

我很想见他最后一面，是真正意义上的最后一面，算是一个告别，我想知道我究竟为什么会对一个见不到的人如此迷恋。我跟他说了想法以后他一方面向我表示他不愿意见我的意愿，另一方面又说会帮我订机票的，我问他什么时候订，他说"我在等工资到账、我明天给你订、等我到公司了给你订、我会给你订的"等等。我问他不愿见我的原因他说"现在不知道该如何面对你，我怕见到你我会心软，我没想到你会陷的这么深"。我等了大概十多天，但迟迟不见动静。他回复我"只有你死心了，我也就解脱了，你为什么还不死心"，"我知道你人好，但我现在对你没有爱的感觉，这是不能强求的，我不明白你为什么还要见面，你知不知道你现在这是不可理喻、纠缠不清。"

有一天晚上我喝了很多酒，那些日子喝的比较多，所以也比较容易醉。晚上我又犯了混发短信给他，然后叫了他宝贝（我之前从来没那么叫过他，这是我第一次叫他宝贝）。第二天他一直沉默，我知道我可能激怒了他，于是跟他道了歉，我说你别生气，他告诉我"我生不生气与你无关，你怎样也与我无关，不要再来烦我！"这就是我们最后的对话。我们的结束。

当时我觉得自己的心是绞着疼的，可现在已经平静很多了。台湾有个心理咨询师说成功的异地恋有三个基本要素：1双方都必须是非常独立的人；2双方必须要有非常广阔的想象力；3双方的周围都没有更好的诱惑。但这也是充分条件，不是充要条件。我和他这段算是异地恋加网恋，我们相处基础薄弱、身处异地、未来发展的不定性都是这段关系的硬伤。

在这段关系中我更像是一个男人，我希望自己喜欢的人能够开心，而不是回回跟我说对不起。以为的两情相悦到最后变成一厢情愿，甚至失去了对真假的判断，找回自我的方式也丢尽了应有的尊严。闺蜜说我是"爱情饥饿症"+"双鱼幻想症"，她劝我不要因为一点小情小趣小恩小惠就动心，要看真刀真枪的付出，我不置可否，也许是太久没有恋爱，一个人生活了太久，所以渴望有个人来疼。"暧昧让人受尽委屈"这句歌词我听到麻木。我曾考虑去他的城市，也为此做好了准备，但终究不在他需要的那个时间点。

我不是单纯的小女孩，我能理解初见时的那种欣喜，我也能承受被厌恶时的痛楚。我从不认为他做错了什么，就像他也不认为我做错了什么一样，这是一个愿打一个愿挨的事，事情本身无法用对错评判。就是两个人没办法在一起。

我曾经问过他"你喜欢我吗？""喜欢。""有多喜欢？""很多。"当他叫着我的名字重复的跟我说了好多遍"我喜欢你"的时候，我从不曾怀疑。这些个"我喜欢你"让我在冬季阴冷的雨夜里倍觉温暖。他曾说过他是一个被动的人，但其实他是一个不会拒绝的人。我跟他朋友不像朋友、恋人不像恋人，这种不冷不热、不近不远的关系揉碎了我的心。

也许女人跟男人是不同的，如果我跟他互换位置，我明知对方的想法，我一定会在开始的时候就把话说明白，"我对你没想法、没感觉"，而不是在最后用"忘了我、我配不上你、对不起、我伤害了你"来回绝。

我曾经无法理解他的暧昧，两年，不长不短，真的有时间、精力跟我暧昧，为什么不花点时间考虑清楚这段关系的走向，可是每次都是"我也不知道怎么办"；我曾质问他"安全感不应该是男生给女生的吗？"，后来我明白这个世界上没有任何一个人能剥夺你的安全感，无论你是男人还是女人；我也无法理解对于一个"没有爱的感觉"的人见一面又会有何影响，他甚至强调只有我放手了他才能解脱，我不懂，如果不爱又为什么会在乎我的感受。

随着时间的推移，我认清了很多，我跟他都是普通的凡人，我们都有人性的弱点。于我自己，我屡屡发现他爱的不够，决定斩断一切但又不够果断，藕断丝连使得伤口流脓溃烂；于他而言，我并非他心中所想，但他一直摇摆不定，使得我又一次利用了他的"不拒绝"。我们只是利用了彼此身上藏在深处的那个点。

最终的放手，一方面是我累了、倦了，另一方面，是听够了他口中的"对不起、我伤害了你"，我跟他聊工作、学习、生活都完全没有问题，但只要一涉及感情，他必定闪烁其词。我们曾试着做朋友，但我发现自己做不到，或者说我觉得没什么必要。我跟他到最后其实已经不是异地的问题，套用一句老话"所有未能圆满的爱情都是因为爱不够"。那些他说的话、或者对于他心底想法的臆测都抵不过他的行动。在一段感情中，尤其是女孩子更愿意相信自己愿意相信的，只会看到自己想看到的。

也许是天气的原因，我最近总是想起他，我已经在控制了，可还是忍不住，后来我劝我自己，既然忍不住那就想，尽情的想，因为想完了也丝毫改变不了什么，生活还是要继续。我并不怨恨他，遇到了，珍惜了，错过了，不过是姻缘未够。愿赌服输。

在这段关系里，我做了很多的蠢事，我甚至期望通过性关系、婚姻来解决所有已经存在的问题，我更一而再、再而三的推翻自己之前所做的决定，这一切如果没有真的发生，我无法想象自己会是这些事件的执行人。我不得不承认自己的幼稚、低情商、以及对自我的放纵。

经济学上有个鳄鱼法则，意思是假定一只鳄鱼咬住你的脚，如果你用手去试图挣脱你的脚，鳄鱼便会同时咬住你的脚与手。你愈挣扎，就被咬住得越多。所以，万一鳄鱼咬住你的脚，你唯一的办法就是牺牲一只脚，这种经济学的效应，在情感上尤其能同呼吸共命运，也就是所谓的情感止损。我没有及时的止损、转移注意力，也没能守住自己坚持的原则，结果伤的很重。

这个过长的故事也许有人经历过，或者正在经历，女人天性会把爱情当生命，容易想太多。伤口总有一天会结疤，失去一个不爱自己、或者说不够爱自己的人，是人生的幸事。终有一天我们会将所有的经历都化为成长的养料。

我知道你的行为，你不冷不热。我巴不得你或冷或热。-----启示录3:15

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